We're working on a painting and playing around the apartment and gonna make dinner soon. We're having blueberry pancakes and potatoes and back bacon - that's Canadian Bacon to people who've never visited Canada. You should really visit that place. It's a nice place and the people are nice people. But don't let 'em fool you. They aren't all nice...they are still people after all. And oh, they don't live in igloos and stuff. You think it's funny that we'd point that out, but some people really do think they live in Igloos...they think a lot of strange stuff about Canada and Canadians!
We talked to The Father today and he and Baby Brother are coming to visit on Saturday and they are going to take us to the zoo. We're excited! Usually we go for our birthday, but last year we didn't get to go because The Other Girl spent the week in Vegas, and at the lake, drinking and doing silly things with all of her friends.
There's stuff here to read. Lots of stuff!
We have three paintings we are working on now, two that will be done by the end of the month hopefully, and one that's turned into a 3-panel piece.
Here's some other stuff we've painted:
- Evil of Three: A Painting
- Saviour: A Painting
- Deadly Catch: A Painting
and there is more here: http://issueoffrank.blogspot.com/p/inside-mind-of-frank-visual-art.html but we're going to be moving it soon to a 5th blog. (we have 4!) because we just have too much content...too much because there are many of us!
~Bethany *throws glitter and confetti at you*
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For the month of May, Mental Health Awareness Month, we will be posting this at he bottom of each of our entries, to help provide additional information about us, and about Dissociative Identiry Disorder/Multiple Personality Disorder.
10 Things You Should Know About US That MIGHT Surprise YOU:
- We used to be a Baptist missionary (yeah, can you fucking believe that shit?!) [we are NOT religious]
- We were once married (didn’t last long) [one of our stories talks about him]
- We have had nearly 30 physical addresses in 30 years, mostly as an adult (nothing could contain us in the early days) [we actually own a house, but choose not to live in it]
- We’ve lived in 2 countries: 1 province and 6-7 different states (running much)
- We have lost 120 pounds since the age of 24 (100 of it when we were 24) [and it's close to 140 pounds now)
- We have a full time job (well, now it's 32 hours a week - but they actually let us work around the other humans!) [it get's harder everyday, and this is the longest we've ever had a single job since we were 17. We've been there almost a year]
- We deal with social anxiety type symptoms every day (and these days we choose not to leave home much, but for going to work) [there are about three people we feel comfortable with being in public with and sometimes we have to be out there alone]
- We have multiple “mental illness” diagnoses (doesn't everybody?) [p.s. all misdiagnosed]
- We have two beautiful cats, who piss us off every day (but they are special, because they put up with us) [though one of us hates them beyond belief]
- We have struggled to survive, over and over, defeating the odds thrown against us (read our stories) [seriously, how are we not dead yet?]
We've copied the stories written here that are specifically about our past (mostly abuse) and moved them to our other blog, called:
Addressing The Issue of Frank: The Origins, History and Life Story of Frank, from "Just Call Me Frank: One Womans Endeavour At Being Frank"
(this blog also contains our artwork/photography - the following links will take you to that blog)
Some of our writing on this blog we like to promote, these are those entries since mid-January 2011. There are bits of writing in this blog that we do not actually promote due to embarrassment over things that some have written - they are here for our own tracking - they are angry, mean, scary things. If you feel like it you can find them on your own. Here are the highlights of what we have written so far this year:
The Mental Health Entries:
Dissociative Identity Disorder/Multiple Personality Disorder
Dissociative Identity Disorder/Multiple Personality Disorder
- Mental Health Awareness Month: Our Introduction
- We Chat With The Father About DID (this post contains information on what DID is)
- Frank Gets Candid (We talk about Catherine, one of our alters)
- **We Freak Out** (this was a very important day, the day we met Marisa, recoverer of DID)
- We Are Fragments
- We / We Get Random / We Have Questions
- Marisa Answers Our Questions
- Frank Gets Candid, About Memories...and Bethany (we talk about one of our alters)
- Frank Lets You Know Bitch (me!) (Bethany got to write her very own entry about herself)
- A Note From Frank, and ONLY Frank (actually not written by Frank)
- Standby and The Death of the Other Girl: Part 1 of 3 (we start talking about the death of one of our alters)
- Our Ears May Be Burning (we talk about what people we recently knew might be saying over Easter)
- We Have Nothing To Lose (Cassandra talk about the death of a mentally ill "friend")
- We Just Need A Good Map (Mental Health Awareness Month Post - Frank talks about DID mapping)
- We Don't Do A Blog Post (we talk a little about mapping, Bethany, unicorns & stuff)
- We Discuss Three Mis-Diagnosed Mental Illnesses
- A Day In The Room
Health:
- When Anxiety Attacks
- Franks/Our 100 Pound Weight Loss Story
- Collision: The Other Girls/Our Terrible Car Accident
- Stress and Expediential Weight Loss
- New Pain and Old Fear
Family:
- Why Most Of Us Dislike Our Mother
- We Chat With The Father About DID (this post contains information on what DID is)
Relationships/Friendships:
- Relationships, Frank...and Love
- Our First Girlfriend
- The First Boy We Liked, That Liked Us Back
- What Become Of The Broken Hearted
- To A Human, If Indeed That Is What You Are (1 of 3)
- The "Death" of Standby and the "Birth" of a Villain (2 of 3)
- Standby: The Final Chapter (3 of 3)
- Standby and The Death of the Other Girl: Part 1 of 3 (to be continued)
- An Ass-Face Comes A Texting
- We Go To University, We Take A Lover
- Our Ears May Be Burning
- We Have Nothing To Lose
- A Mistress Without Cutlery
- Fuck Face: Who He Is (also work related)
- The Demise of Fuck Face...Part 1
- The Demise of Fuck Face...Part 2
- The Demise of Fuck Face...Part 3
- The Demise of Fuck Face...Part 4
- The Demise of Fuck Face...Part 5
- The Demise of Fuck Face...Part 6
- We Have Drinks With Fuck Face
Work:
- All In a Days Work
- All In a Days Work II
- All In a Days Work III
- A Day In The Room
- Another Day, Another Dollar; Fuck Our Life
Life: - Please Don't Let Us Be Misunderstood
- All We Have Is Hope
- Cooking With Frank
- A Distraction, In The Form of The Jeans
- Seriously...And @NickSilly Answers Some Questions
- We Get A Guest Blogger - Kinky Sex!
- We Have Nothing To Lose
- How We Feel About Advice...and We Ramble
Opinion:
- Religion, You Say? We Have A View On That
- Growth and Change; An Artist Standpoint
- Birds of A Feather, on Twitter, CAN Flock Together
- For Us, It's All About Team Awesome...and Twitter
- Reading We Recommend: Casey Hannan
- Hell Ride: A Film Review
Art/Poetry:
- Evil of Three: A Painting
- Saviour: A Painting
- Deadly Catch: A Painting
- Pretty Things: A Poem
- Erase This Poem
- Envisage of We: A Poem
Humour/Random Fun:
If you have any questions for us we are very open and will answer to our best ability - this is totally the month to ask us questions. You can either ask us on Twitter, in the comment section of a blog entry here, or e-mail us at justcallmefrank2010 (at) gmail.com.
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Resources for You - facts, figures and personal stories of other people can be found on these sites:
National Institute of Mental Health: http://www.nimh.nih.gov/index.shtml
American Psychological Association: http://www.apa.org/index.aspx
Canadian Mental Health Association: http://www.cmha.ca/bins/index.asp
Mental Health Europe: http://www.mhe-sme.org/
World Health Organization - Mental Health: http://www.euro.who.int/en/what-we-do/health-topics/noncommunicable-diseases/mental-health
Mental Health America: http://www.mentalhealthamerica.net/go/may
World Psychiatric Association: http://www.wpanet.org
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