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(This was what we wrote for last years mental health month: http://just-call-me-frank.blogspot.co.uk/2011/05/mental-health-awareness-month-our.html)
We're a day late with this entry of course, because we had other things to write about yesterday. When we have to write about something to clear our mind and find a spot of peace, we have to write. It's a drive some of us try to fight, but in the end we do it, and we feel better.
I'm not so sure how to proceed with the rest of this. I really don't want to be the one responsible for writing this intro.
We blog for so many reasons. One is writing therapy, another is journaling to track our life, and make it easier to remember in the future. We also love to write, and to share with people and to help others; but some of us don't do it for others, some of us do it purely for us, some of us dislike other people (hate is too strong a word, 'disgusted by' is a better way to say it).
Also, our parents have access to this blog (all of our blogs, and all of our social media presences) so they can check in on us whenever they want - we don't like talking on the phone - and we tend to move about a lot, currently we're in England, we used to be in Canada...and who knows where we will go from here, maybe mainland Europe - we are American. We like to share our life with them in writing, especially now that we are older. We have had checkered past with them, some of us way more than others.
We write about our life and make it public to the world to share the many normal things that people with issues in mental health go through, to show that while the mind of the mentally "ill" may be considered different, it's really not that different from a non-mentally "ill" person; and sometimes what is labeled a mental illness these days is a completely normal experience that pharmacological companies exploit by making people insecure about who they are (another day, another many blog entries for that).
We write to demystify mental illness, particularly DID/MPD and in turn reduce the stigma created by news, films, books and other media.
We write to help others who struggle, as an example to show that it's possible to have a "normal" life, to overcome and move past abuse from the past and not to use it as a crutch, and that a "normal" and successful life is how one defines it for themselves, not how other people define it.
Experiences are what makes people different, makes them who they are; but at the end of the day no matter who you are, the color of your skin, your religion, your level of education, your job, your mental health, everything. We, you, us...everyone are all just people. And to quote the title of the famous book "Everybody poops".
We could go on. But I'd prefer to end it there.
Our hope for mental health month is that people learn about the issues, instead of confusing them from one to another and continuing the spread of ignorance.
We want people to learn and understand what they make jokes about, because people do. We want them to understand pretending you have a mental illness for the sake of a joke, to someone who is mentally ill, is not funny - ESPECIALLY if you mix several illnesses/get the symptoms wrong. It would be akin to pretending you have cancer for the sake of a joke, but mixing up the symptoms of two completely specific and unrelated cancers. Also, how rude would it be to pretend you have an life-threatening illness just for a joke? Mental health can be a life-threatening illness. People die due to mental illness every year by the tens of thousands.
We hope:
That people learn the difference between schizophrenia and multiple personality disorder.
That people learn what autism actually is.
That people understand real depression, not just feeling "blue" or "disappointed with life" or "lonely"...but understand what it means to be depressed.
That people choose knowledge over ignorant stereotyping. That they learn the facts.
Those are just a few of them.
New hopes for a new year of positive mental health advocacy.
~ Catherine et al
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- Interested in guest blogging for the month of May here on this blog? Or on our main advocacy blog, Frank Mental Health? OR taking part in the American Psychological Association Mental Health Month Blog Party, please visit: http://www.yourmindyourbody.org/mental-health-month-blog-day/ ?
Read this entry from last week: http://just-call-me-frank.blogspot.co.uk/2012/04/upcoming.html
- Multiple Personality Disorder in the Movies
http://just-call-me-frank.blogspot.co.uk/2012/01/multiple-personality-disorder-in-movies.html - We Don't Read Your Blogs
http://just-call-me-frank.blogspot.co.uk/2012/03/we-dont-read-your-blogs.html
10 Things You Should Know About US That MIGHT Surprise YOU: (this list was originally written in the Spring of 2011...some things have changed and notation has been made as to changes]
- We used to be a Baptist missionary (yeah, can you fucking believe that shit?!) [we are NOT religious]
- We were once married (didn’t last long) [some of our stories talks about him]
- We have had nearly 30 physical addresses in 30 years, mostly as an adult (nothing could contain us in the early days) {we even owned a house for two years, and will again}
- We’ve lived in 2 countries: 1 province, 6-7 different states (running much); {and now England for three months}
- We have lost 120 pounds since the age of 24 (100 of it when we were 24) [and it's close to 140 pounds now)
- We have a full time job. {we got fired after a year, one of the longest jobs we've held in July of 2011}
- We deal with social anxiety type symptoms nearly every day.
- We have multiple “mental illness” diagnoses (doesn't everybody?) [p.s. all misdiagnosed]
- We have two beautiful cats, who piss us off every day (but they are special, because they put up with us) [though one of us hates them beyond belief] {one of us misses them terribly while we are abroad}
The following are mental health entries we are willing to share by making them easily accessible, we've culled the more focused entries out of our archive page, in no particular order.
*Please note, some are disordered, as far as the understanding the person who is writing has of our system, particularly in the beginning. As we have grown to know each other things have become clearer, as is the point with writing therapy in dissociative identity disorder.
2012
- A Peek Into Id, Ego and Super-Ego
- Sleepless Nights and a Hateful Personality
- Dissociating Happy Memories
- Treating and Curing Dissociative Identity Disorder
- Personality Vs. Dissociative Disorder
- Associating With Dissociation
- Slow Burn In The Switch (written by Melody & Brooke - they tend to dislike each other)
- Slow Burn In The Switch: Part II (written by Cassandra - about good switching)
- Overcoming To Get To Your “O” ADULT RATED
- A Non-Memory Memory (Written by Ivy)
- Random Memory on Replay (Written by Cassandra & Catherine)
- A Face Full of Emotion: A Journal Entry
- Comfort In Animal Companions: A Journal Entry (Written by Ivy)
- We Chat With The Father About DID (this post contains information on what DID is)
- Frank Gets Candid (We talk about Catherine, one of our alters)
- **We Freak Out** (this was a very important day, the day we met Marisa, recoverer of DID)
- We Are Fragments
- We / We Get Random / We Have Questions
- Marisa Answers Our Questions
- Frank Gets Candid, About Memories...and Bethany (we talk about one of our alters)
- Our Ears May Be Burning (we talk about what people we recently knew might be saying over Easter)
- We Just Need A Good Map (Mental Health Awareness Month Post - Frank talks about DID mapping)
- We Don't Do A Blog Post (we talk a little about mapping, Bethany, unicorns & stuff)
- We Discuss Three Mis-Diagnosed Mental Illnesses
- The D in DID: Dissociation (written by Cassandra)
- Bethany Has A Flashback?
- We Can't Always Disappear
- Who Lives In Your Head? Mapping Therapy and DID/MPD
- A Day In The Room (Writing done by those other than Frank et al)
- We Have Nothing To Lose (Cassandra talks about the death of a mentally ill "friend")
- Frank Lets You Know Bitch (me!) (Bethany got to write her very own entry about herself)
- Sam Gets Angry About Ignorance (Written by Sam)
- A Little Bit Of Emmie (Written by Emmie)
- Sam Gets Set-Off (Written by Sam)
- We Answer Some Follower Questions
- We Answer Some Follower Questions: Part II
- One of Us Has Sociopathic Tendencies (Written by Melody)
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