tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-754125091287589349.post7275677124414737570..comments2023-11-09T12:19:17.565-06:00Comments on Just Call Me Frank: Our Endeavour at Being Frank: Accidental OptimismJust Call Me Frankhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09058598849716342352noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-754125091287589349.post-87214930589356500452012-10-24T08:43:43.178-05:002012-10-24T08:43:43.178-05:00Hi Frankie,
I have to say I am also an optimist, ...Hi Frankie,<br /><br />I have to say I am also an optimist, but I think you already knew that :) and my darling hubby is a pessimist - ahem I mean realist of course. So am aware of how that relationship goes! And it's funny - he also wants to protect me from hurt and disappointment. And I would rather imagine the fairy tale. So - when I am in the middle of a fairytale fantasy, his dose of realism is often the last thing I want to hear! And when he is in the middle of imagining some kind of worst case scenario, the last thing he wants to hear is that 'I'm sure everything will turn out well'. It's safer for me to imagine the good (it's what keeps me going, I don't think I could cope with anything in life if I already expected things to turn out badly) - and him shiedling himself from potential disappointment is what he sees to be the safest option. <br />But someone has to be right - right?<br />Unsurprisingly, it seems the ladies are 'right' again! Have been reading about lots of things like 'The Law Of Attraction' and Universal Law, and it seems to be a universal principal that the more good we focus on the more good we will attract - and vice versa. Focusing on the good actually can helps us to manifest that good in our lives. So it really is much more helpful to focus on good outcomes, this can help us to achieve the good outcomes because our positive visualistion is being sent to the universe and the universe can hear us! <br />Of course we might not always achieve our dreams exactly as we visualise them - but things in life almost never turn out as we think they will! So what is the point in focusing on the negative when things may turn out to be positive? Then we will have brought only negativity to the equation uselessly! It's a big waste of energy if nothing else. And... if things do go wrong (by the way I don't believe in this concept per se, as believe everything happens for a reason :))then we will just have to deal with it at the time in whatever way we know how at the time. No amount of worry will change or help this reality.<br /><br />As a wise person once said, 'Aim for the moon and if you miss, at least you'll land amongst the stars' and I couldn't agree more. <br /><br />Here's to star searching, moon reaching, fantasy creating and dream manifestation - and here's to happy, supportive, positive, optimistic husbands who help us make our dreams come true with their own belief in and positive support of our dreams!!!! <br /><br />With loads of Love <br /><br />Hannah xx<br /><br /><br /><br />Hannah Imogen Joneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07198816533529881782noreply@blogger.com